Processing connection request in online service

1. A method to process a connection request in an online service by a server corresponding to the online service, the method comprising:

sending a connection request message that originates from a personalized account of a first user to a personalized account of a second user, wherein the connection request message comprises a friend request message to invite the personalized account of the second user to become a friend of the personalized account of the first user in the online service;

subsequent to sending the connection request message to the personalized account of the second user and before the personalized account of the second user accepts the connection request message, providing a certain threshold of access to posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user for a certain period of time, wherein the certain threshold of access to posts related to the personalized account of the first user is also accessible to authorized contacts of the personalized account of the first user;

upon determining that the certain period of time has elapsed, revoking the certain threshold of access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user; and

upon determining that the connection request message has been accepted by the personalized account of the second user, allowing full access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user.

2. The method of claim 1 , wherein the certain period of time starts when the connection request message is verified as having been received on the personalized account of the second user.

3. The method of claim 1 , wherein the certain period of time starts when at least one of the posts related to the personalized account of the first user is verified as having been accessed on the personalized account of the second user.

4. The method of claim 1 , wherein the certain period of time starts when the connection request message is sent to the personalized account of the second user.

5. The method of claim 1 , wherein the certain period of time extends from minutes to weeks.

6. The method of claim 1 , further comprising:

upon determining that the connection request message has not been accepted by the personalized account of the second user within a second certain period of time, revoking the certain threshold of access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user.

7. A system to process a connection request in an online service, comprising:

a processor configured to:

send a connection request message that originates from a personalized account of a first user to a personalized account of a second user, wherein the connection request message comprises a friend request message to invite the personalized account of the second user to become a friend of the personalized account of the first user in the online service;

subsequent to sending the connection request message to the personalized account of the second user and before the personalized account of the second user accepts the connection request message, provide a certain threshold of access to posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user for a certain period of time, wherein the certain threshold of access to posts related to the personalized account of the first user is also accessible to authorized contacts of the personalized account of the first user;

upon determining that the certain period of time has elapsed, revoke the certain threshold of access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user; and

upon determining that the connection request message has been accepted by the personalized account of the second user, allow full access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user.

8. The system of claim 7 , wherein the certain period of time starts when the connection request message is verified as having been received on the personalized account of the second user.

9. The system of claim 7 , wherein the certain period of time starts when at least one of the posts related to the personalized account of the first user is verified as having been accessed on the personalized account of the second user.

10. The system of claim 7 , wherein the certain period of time starts when the connection request message is sent to the personalized account of the second user.

11. The system of claim 7 , wherein the certain period of time extends from minutes to weeks.

12. The system of claim 7 , wherein the processor is further configured to:

upon determining that the connection request message has not been accepted by the personalized account of the second user within a second certain period of time, revoke the certain threshold of access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user.

13. A non-transitory computer-readable memory having stored thereon a plurality of computer-executable instructions, that when executed, cause one or more processors to perform operations comprising:

sending a connection request message that originates from a personalized account of a first user to a personalized account of a second user, wherein the connection request message comprises a friend request message to invite the personalized account of the second user to become a friend of the personalized account of the first user in an online service;

subsequent to sending the connection request message to the personalized account of the second user and before the personalized account of the second user accepts the connection request message, allowing a certain threshold of access to posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user for a certain period of time, wherein the certain threshold of access to posts related to the personalized account of the first user is also accessible to authorized contacts of the personalized account of the first user;

upon determining that the certain period of time has elapsed, revoking the certain threshold of access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user; and

upon determining that the connection request message has been accepted by the personalized account of the second user, allowing full access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user.

14. The computer-readable medium of claim 13 , wherein the certain period of time starts when the connection request message is verified as having been received on the personalized account of the second user.

15. The computer-readable medium of claim 13 , wherein the certain period of time starts when at least one of the posts related to the personalized account of the first user is verified as having been accessed on the personalized account of the second user.

16. The computer-readable medium of claim 13 , wherein the certain period of time starts when the connection request message is sent to the personalized account of the second user.

17. The computer-readable medium of claim 13 , further cause one or more processors to perform operations comprising:

upon determining that the connection request message has not been accepted by the personalized account of the second user within a second certain period of time, revoking the certain threshold of access to the posts related to the personalized account of the first user to the personalized account of the second user.